My special treat-to-myself...Bob Sinclar

Well I guess you can say, Lent is definitely over.  lol.  I went out last Thursday and haven't stopped since.  I told myself I'm staying in this upcoming weekend.  I don't want to get carried away on my financial goals, especially since I've been doing so well.  During Lent, I received an email mentioning Bob Sinclar was coming to Chicago.  I've followed him over the years and immediately got excited.  He rarely comes to the States and I knew I wanted to see him perform.  Last time a DJ was in town that I was curious about, I didn't act fast enough and the tickets sold out right away.  I didn't think twice this time.  I figured this would be my special treat-to-myself this month.  Lent would be over and I could finally hear this legendary dj's music!  I was excited.
Then the day came.  Things got complicated at work, and I couldn't have Friday off.  Not to mention, it was freezing again.  The whole week our weather was frigid.  I wasn't feeling up to it.  I messaged my girlfriend in Italy that I was thinking of not going.  It was too much trouble and I felt silly being out at a club at my age.  But my friend convinced to me to go.  She figured hearing some good music will get me out of my rut.  I'm on the fence about traveling anytime soon, and this would be a great way to cheer me up.  "You know you're going to have fun.  You should go."
It's moments like these I'm grateful for the friends that I have.  They do know me after all.  Plus they know what I like.  If I know I'm going to have fun, why would I opt not to go?  Believe it or not, you could be the only person who is stopping yourself from accepting joy in your life.  You can talk yourself out of having a good time.  Why?  Mostly we bring up excuses to mask what is happening, but the main reason is because you feel you should not be receiving joy, happiness, love.  I haven't been myself lately due to personal health issues, but I knew I wanted to have a good time.  I deserved it!

What I wore to Studio Paris.  I wore fleece lined leggings (lmao) and my suede over the knee boots because of how cold it was.  I wore my valentino earrings for a touch of gold.

As close I can get to Bob Sinclar.  There were people dancing everywhere so it was hard to get near him. 

He flew in for the show but was disappointed in Chicago weather.  We actually live here so we know what you mean.  lol. 

I DID have to come in the next day, but only for half a day.  Plus, it worked out for the best anyway because I had a birthday dinner to go to on Friday, (which was not far from my job).  I mingled in the crowd and tried to get up close, but people were dancing all over the place.  Everyone enjoyed the music and for the older fans, we appreciated his style very much.  In the world of EDM, it was nice to hear house music for a change, especially from Bob Sinclar.  I can now officially knock him off my dj bucket list!    

I DON'T NEED A VALENTINE. I NEED VALENTINO

Let's be honest.  It's hard to keep a positive attitude with the weather we've been having here lately.    Last weekend, it was cold!  I stayed in both Friday and Saturday because the temperature was too frigid plus there was gusty winds!  Sunday was the only day this week that was going to be sunny and in the 60s.  I caught up with my friends after church and we made our way to the mall like we use to do.  It's getting harder to catch up with everyone now that some of them have babies.  I know I have to find a way to keep busy and make some new friends, (which will be hard for me because I'm pretty shy).  Regardless, I am going to be busy this weekend, and will make an effort to enjoy myself out despite how yucky the weather will be. 
Since nothing much else has been going on with me, I have a funny story to mention.  Since I've been single these past few years, I've found a way not to feel so bad about my status.  I've bought special gifts-to-myself for my birthday, Christmas, and Valentine's Day in the meantime.  This past Valentine, I was eyeing a Versace ring I secretly wanted.  I never owned anything from them, and was worried about the ring sizing because it was in Italian.  I looked into the conversion, but low and behold, when it arrived, it was too loose.  I could have kept it and made the most of it, but my co-workers insisted I return the ring.  "What if you lose it?  It's not worth it if it doesn't fit right", they said.  Sadly, I knew they were right, and sent the ring back the same day I received it.  So much for my Valentine's-gift-to-myself this year, I murmured. 
Of course I couldn't let go of the fact that I didn't get something for myself.  I even started looking around for my up coming birthday in 3 months.  Then one day, I was on the outnet's website, and saw some Valentino earrings.  They were a steal!  I clicked on it and right away was notified that there were the last pair.  I couldn't resist.  I purchased it without even thinking about it!  I got them the other day and can't wait to wear them out.  Yes, I did get Valentino for Valentines, and I'm in love!  It's little splurges like these that can bring you some joy out of the blue.  I am a true believer that I can't get whatever I want, it just might take me a while.  lol.  Not to mention, it didn't compromise with my savings plan.  Now if I can only figure out how to get those rockstud heels... 

My gifts-to-myself over the years.  The vintage Chanel earrings I splurged for my 30th birthday, and the YSL arty ring I got on my 40th.  The Alexander McQueen bracelet was my Christmas present-to-myself 2 years ago.  The watch and cuff bracelet is BCBG. 

LOVE the red box!

THANKS TheOutnet!  I'm officially hooked on your website and love my earrings!